Which brings me to my point. I believe that's what it should be like. People should feel comfortable working with you, and asking you questions, and the same goes for me as the photographer too. We should have a relationship where we can simply communicate and enjoy the day. I could not have asked for a better experience than this. And while we were challenged by unexpected rain in the end, and had to rush through some photos in the end (couldn't let the bride get wet!), we still got a couple "WOW" shots. I'm happy for them. I think every couple should have a "WOW" shot. You know, just so their future kids can look back and go "Eeugugh Mom & Dad"!
]]>I recently met with Cheyenne's Mom and Grandmother who laughingly kept asking me why I had to take so many good photos that day. Well - you know the answer now, and they did too. But how nice to have all those choices, than too little to chose from. So one solution was to create a custom composite (collage) photo using their favorite photos. Perfect. The really cool thing was Mom and Grandmother choose - for the most part - different photos to include in their separate custom composite photos. And some of them I would never guessed would have been their favorite. And my favorites were different from both of theirs! (We had about 40 selections - so there were plenty to choose from.)
Lesson learned: It's all relative about the memories and emotions a photo elicits that makes it beautiful to each of us. One photo of Cheyenne reminded her Mom of Cheyenne looking sweet, yet maturing and looking out toward her future. That meant something to her. I loved one of Cheyenne looking up from reading a book because I know she's an avid reader and writer and it captured volumes of her personality to me. Her grandmother preferred a shot where Cheyenne was playfully peeking from around a corner - reminiscent of when she was a very young child, only now a beautiful young woman graduating from high school.
I will keep shooting senior and family photo sessions the same way I have been - capturing plenty of shots, looks, backgrounds, etc, ensures we will capture the many sides of a personality, and the moment they are passing through in their life. Mom or Dad might like something completely different than the son or daughter, or grandparent, and everyone should have a choice that makes them happy. Ultimately, it isn't what I think is beautiful - it's what the client (YOU) thinks is beautiful.
Kymn Davidson-Hamley, KymnImages Photography 2015
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